Live and let Live – जियो और जीने दो

What’s a personal mantra or philosophy you live by?

I strongly believe in this philosophy. I follow the principle of Live and let Live, in my life.

Life becomes happier and joyful when you follow this simple philosophy. Let us explore this philosophy in little more detail.

Live – What does it mean

It means, you live your life your way. Do not bother about what people think or say about you or your clothing or your appearance.

It is most difficult task to live your life without bothering about society or what people will say … We are constantly under pressure of judgements and labelling by the society and probably our own relatives. Many people are so toxic that they discuss and comment on your face about the dressing or the way you live.

Our choices and life decisions are largely influenced by what people will say. I have never cared or bothered about people opinion. It was clear in my mind that I know better than anyone else about myself, so no one has any idea about my likings and my desires.

Best way forward is start loving yourself and ignore the noise around.

Let live – what does it mean

Let live means allow people freedom to choose their lives without being judgemental. Don’t gossip or discuss about their clothing or appearance. Not even their body shape or size. This may look weird but people have immense interest in such things.

Another important point to remember is – do not asses their decisions or actions. This is typical behaviour trait, whenever someone tells you about something, you asses and then start commenting about right or wrong about the decisions. Instead allow them to live the way they want and learn to respect diversity.

There can be different choices than what you preferred and those can be good choices at times. Normally, we try to fit people in our own frames and then judge them. If they don’t fit into your frame, that means something is wrong. The thinking is like My way is highway types.

The moment you start following the principle of “Live and Let Live” , life becomes easy and simple. It is completely stress free.

Another important mantra is Stop giving free advice to people. If it is no more asked for, then it is irritant for others. And then you as a person also become irritant.

So dear readers please follow simple principle of Live and Let Live.

Stay Happy and keep Smiling 😊